I have a friend who kenna rejected by a gal lor coz according to her they cannot get along although she had tried to...however my friend is still going to go all out to chase her lor...Now he is suppose to focus on his A levels but there he is trying to win someone's heart...a bit the not very focused ah...haha
Actually, i also not very focused one..hehe:P still got the cheek to say others....
It actually make me realised that out there are many people coz of such probs. and forgot how to prioritise in life..of coz there are also other problems that also are able to confuse us...an example is me lor..recently I also been through a rather tough patch recently and i suddenly realised that people will change and so must ourselves lor.. I think I have been to dependent on my friend, SH, so much so that i am too afraid of losing him as a friend and so much that it started to affects me lor and that is not a very good thing and it is not becoz of a gal...haha like that next time how am i going to handle relationship probs. sia!!!!!!!!! That's is why i think i have to change and become more of an independent person..then i am able to enjoy my life fully and know what i really want lor....
Must follow like WR and Jon though they dont always be together but somehow or rather they are always....haha...they are still able to be close friends for a very long time...so therefore i should know where my priorities lie and be focused lor...becoz i realise tht the more u try to keep someone ...the furthur they will go and eventually u will lose ur fren...so though some says that friends are very important and I agree to that but I feel that one should not be restricted to just one group..coz eventually people will change and may have different perspectives and we must also be more flexible and also adapt to changes...
Another thing that I have also realised is that it is not the amount of friends that one have counts, but rather it is the number of true friends out there that matters lor...some may have a 1ooo frens but only 2 that understands him...so if u have found a true blue friend who understands u...u must really cherish that person lor...and if any of u out there feels that u are losing ur best friends...do not really worry so much...just relaz and take it that ur frenz is just trying to know more friends and that if u are really his or her best friend, they will always remember u one..so u should also go out to make more friends and find more true friends whoma are waiting out there....waiting to be found
Of coz~one must always knows hu is ur best frenz and cannot forgeet them as they are the ones that have moulded u into the person that u are today...
So now...i think that i have hopefully figure myself out and be a more independent person and not be so down liao as PROMOS are approaching...so muz start to mug like siao now..haha but at the same time do not give myself too much stress lor=)
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